What comes to mind when hearing or reading the words, ‘afternoon tea’? Is it satin tablecloths and delicate boned china dishes, scones and jams, and pinkies sticking out just so? Is it something more casual, perhaps? Just big mugs of hot brew with a little cream thrown in, shared over a table to help keep your eyes open mid-day? Or maybe it’s fancier still, with tiny triangles of cucumber sandwiches and coronation chicken, trifles of battenburg cakes and macaroons and macarons all set upon a 3-tiers of perfectly assembled wonder.
For me, growing up, afternoon tea was simply a pot of tea with my grandmother. We’d pour cups of green tea, Constant Comment or Earl Grey and talk. She’d tell me stories, some from her life, some she made up, and we’d sip. That was it. But from that humble beginning, a fascination with the idea of afternoon tea began. I’d read about the more posh variety in novels, I’d see it in period films, and I even partook of an especially lovely version in North Carolina once.
But then, we visited England, and our notion of afternoon tea was turned on it’s head, and I was ruined forever.
On our first trip to England we were slated to visit London, Bath and Manchester. We had tea scheduled in every city. The second time we visited, we had tea in the Lake District, in North Yorkshire and in York. The best, the fanciest, the most posh and unforgettable? London, of course.
In England, afternoon tea can be any of the ideas above. It can be a small meal, it can be sweet treats, it can be scones and jam—and of course, always, tea. It can be tea in bags (though this is frowned upon) or looseleaf and listed on a fancy menu as one would list fine wines. The menu will mention the plantation the leaves were grown on, the specific aromas, whether the tea is invigorating, sensual, calming or good for the complexion. And the tea we enjoyed in London had this type of menu, and attached to it was a complementary menu of champagnes, cocktails and other refreshments to pair with the tea. At this establishment, it wasn’t simply tea, it was an event.
Being American, I think we were more in awe of the menu and presentation than the other customers. Eggs in egg cups, tiny sandwiches with sprouts, salmon, cucumbers and all kinds of strange toppings we’d normally never order on purpose. Tiny cheese in pastry and all sorts of desserts, from pink marshmallows tied into knots to miniature pink tea cakes that looked too perfect to eat. The champagne bottles popped almost as often as the teacups clinked into their delicate saucers, but the conversation never rose above a polite hum.
This experience far surpassed what I had imagined for a tea, but it wasn’t the old fashioned decadence of novels nor the stuffy etiquette of period films. Instead it was something…modern. Decadent—yes, but pompous—no. It was as if all of the fun of afternoon tea had been modernized. All of the elegance made accessible, especially for us yankee doodles who wouldn’t have known the correct position for our pinky and could barely keep our elbows off the table.
This was a far cry from my grandmother’s table, two mugs full of whatever tea had caught her eye at the grocery store. A cotton tablecloth, a plain creamer and stray sugar spilled on the table. But the feeling was mostly the same for both
. This is afternoon tea, then. Just a pause in a hectic day, and no matter how many tiny sandwiches or how much clotted cream is on the table, it’s the pause in the busy day that matters. That—and the champagne, of course.